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Empowering a Man's Heart that He Has What it Takes

Mark DeJesus

Mark DeJesus

teaching

October 2, 2025
Are you a man who feels that talking to God is like talking to a brick wall? You're not alone. Thousands of men struggle with the same thing - feeling like God isn't listening, like your prayers go nowhere, like you're wasting His time with your problems. But what if I told you this struggle isn't about your faith being weak? What if the real issue goes much deeper - back to something you never received growing up? In this video, I address a heartfelt question from a man who's battling depression, financial struggles, and a profound sense that God doesn't hear him. As we dig into his story, a pattern emerges that I see in countless men: The absence of fathering creates a broken compass for life. When your dad said "figure it out on your own," when you didn't receive approval, empowerment, and direction from your earthly father, it damages your ability to connect with your Heavenly Father. You end up: - Feeling like you don't have what it takes - Paralyzed when making decisions - Consumed by fear of failure - Unable to sense God's presence - Constantly turning on yourself This is what a broken heart actually looks like in a man's life - not tears and sadness, but performance, perfectionism, paralysis, and depression. The good news? You can be re-parented. You can learn to connect with the Father's love, approval, and guidance that you never received. This is actually central to the Gospel message that Jesus came to "heal the brokenhearted." In this teaching, I share: - Why the fathering wound affects everything in your life - How Jesus modeled receiving the Father's approval before doing anything - Practical steps for re-parenting yourself and breaking the generational pattern - How to pray when you feel nothing If you've ever felt like you're leading your family into a "Jesus of nothing," if you struggle to believe God cares about your practical problems, if you constantly feel ill-equipped for life - this message is for you. It's time to stop passing down what you never received. It's time to become what you never had. ➡️Get a FREE eBook on the Father’s Love: https://bit.ly/3fGu6t3 ▶️Mark's resource library: https://markdejesus.com/topics/ 👉Support future videos: https://markdejesus.com/donate/ 🌎Join the Healing and Freedom Community: https://markdejesus.com/community 📚Mark's books: https://markdejesus.com/books-by-mark-dejesus/ Music Provided by Epidemic Sound: https://share.epidemicsound.com/73m02k and Audiio: https://ref.audiio.com/3c99d6zk Mark's Podcast and Video Equipment: https://markdejesus.com/equipment/ Disclaimer: The content published is for informational purposes. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. It is purely educational in nature. Always seek the advice of your mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read, heard or viewed in our material. The resources given are not designed to practice medicine or give professional medical advice, including, without limitation, medical direction concerning someone's medical and mental health. Any resources given are not to be considered complete and does not cover all issues related to mental and physical health. In addition, any information given should not replace consultation with your doctor or any other mental health providers and/or specialists.

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father's lovemenman's heartchristian menmentoringfathering

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