š“ROCD Q&A 8: Intimacy, Commitment Fears | God Distortions | Root of ROCD | Sexual Intrusive Thoughts
Mark DeJesus
teaching
July 14, 2026
In this live ROCD Q&A, I take you into the battleground ofĀ relationship OCD and anxiety, especially when it comes to relationship intimacy and commitment. I address intrusive thoughts, especially for sensitive ROCD strugglers who deeply care aboutĀ Godās will,Ā purity and honoringĀ biblical truth, but are struggling with distortions on how they relate to those areas. I talk through how fear ofĀ commitment, distorted views ofĀ intimacy andĀ how perfectionismĀ can hijack your emotions and make you feel like God is constantly telling you to break up, back away, or endlessly ācheckā if youāre with the right person.
I address themes likeĀ relationship anxiety,Ā sexual orientation OCD, struggles withĀ lustĀ andĀ purity battles. ROCD can impact someone in every stage, includingĀ dating, engagement, and marriage. So its important we gain equipping on how to deal with intrusive thoughts that want to rob us of taking fruitful steps forward.
Christians often confuseĀ obedienceĀ with being micromanaged by God instead of walking in theĀ libertyĀ theĀ gospelĀ actually brings. My goal is to ground you inĀ grace,Ā self-compassion, and aĀ journey mindset, helping you developĀ emotional maturityĀ in how you relate to your thoughts, your partner, and to God as a lovingĀ Father. If youāre tired of spinning, catastrophizing your future, or feeling tormented by your own mind while trying to be āspiritual,ā this broadcast is for you. Tune in, let these truths wash over your heart, and if it blesses you, be sure to like, subscribe, and check out myĀ ROCD resources,Ā The OCD Healing Journey, andĀ The Myth of the Perfect OneĀ so you can keep walking out your healing and freedom step by step.
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