🔴 Boundaries with Unhealthy Parents | Borderline Personality Disorder | Fear of Death

In Sunday Live, we dig into boundaries with dysfunctional and unhealthy parents, neediness, borderline personality disorder, religious OCD, scrupulosity and more! I start off with why Paul was able to break through the fear of death and end the broadcast addressing a 68-year-old pastor who has spent decades tormented by the fear that his past sin permanently separated him from God. We also get into: 🔹 OCD + Borderline Personality Disorder — What happens when these two collide, why the emotional storms feel constant, and how Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) principles can help you stop being a victim of your own mood swings 🔹 Blasphemous and intrusive thoughts — Why God is NOT mad at you, and how to stop interpreting every anxious feeling as spiritual condemnation 🔹 Frozen in indecision — A woman dealing with chronic illness, a traumatic medical experience, and spiritual abuse from prosperity gospel teaching asks how to include God in her decisions without becoming paralyzed by fear of "missing His will." I challenge a common distortion Christians carry about what God's will actually looks like — and why you have more freedom to make decisions than you think 🔹 Rejection wounds and attention-seeking — Why the obsessive need to be seen or noticed isn't something to shame yourself over, but a wound pointing to places that need healing — and why the answer is never suppression 🔹 Parenting a teenager with ODD and addiction — The one principle I keep coming back to: all change happens out of a bond, and like Emmanuel, God with us, the path forward is entering your child's world, not forcing them into yours 🔹 Boundaries with difficult people — Four levels of relational boundaries and how to navigate toxic or narcissistic relationships with grace and wisdom Throughout, I keep coming back to something that shapes everything I do: the body of Christ is full of people who are suffering and hiding in shame. Whether it's a pastor who is struggling with religious OCD, a woman frozen by trauma and bad theology, or someone tormented by thoughts they can't make stop — you are not alone, and there is hope. And this is exactly why Melissa and I show up every Sunday. ❓Submit a Question: https://markdejesus.com/questions/ 📘Get The OCD Healing Journey Book Today: https://markdejesus.com/the-ocd-healing-journey-book/ ➡️Get a FREE eBook on the Father’s Love: https://bit.ly/3fGu6t3 ▶️Mark's resource library: https://markdejesus.com/topics/ 👉Support future videos: https://markdejesus.com/donate/ 🌎Join the Healing and Freedom Community: https://markdejesus.com/community 📚Mark's books: https://markdejesus.com/books-by-mark-dejesus/ Music Provided by Epidemic Sound: https://share.epidemicsound.com/73m02k and Audiio: https://ref.audiio.com/3c99d6zk Mark's Podcast and Video Equipment: https://markdejesus.com/equipment/ Disclaimer: The content published is for informational purposes. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. It is purely educational in nature. Always seek the advice of your mental health professional or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding your condition. Never disregard professional advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read, heard or viewed in our material. The resources given are not designed to practice medicine or give professional medical advice, including, without limitation, medical direction concerning someone's medical and mental health. Any resources given are not to be considered complete and does not cover all issues related to mental and physical health. In addition, any information given should not replace consultation with your doctor or any other mental health providers and/or specialists. 0:00 Intro 2:15 How To Find Freedom 8:25 Blessed Usherance 18:25 What was Certs w/Retsyn? 22:25 Greet The Chat 26:52 Philippians : 20-26 When The Fear Of Death Loses It's Power 1:04:35 Dance Break 1:06:20 How Do I Laugh More? 1:10:50 Boundaries With Unhealthy Parents & Dysfunctional Family 1:21:10 Spinning When I Don't Receive Attention 1:27:20 Religious OCD & Borderline Personality Disorder 1:36:40 Frozen With Indecisiveness. About Getting Surgery 1:45:35 Helping Teenager With ODD & Drug Abuse? 1:51:40 Hard to Move Forward With OCD? 1:54:47 Pastor With Religious OCD