The Lie of Polygamy: Exposed Biblically, Logically & Ethically|with @InspiringPhilosophy
Melissa Dougherty
apologetics
November 14, 2025
Why is polygamy sorta trending, and why are people saying it's biblical? What in the nope is going on?
Polygamy shows up in the Old Testament, in Islam, in Mormonism, but I've been seeing this promoted by some Christians today, and I'm surprised to see it growing. From TLC's Sister Wives to influencers like Rich Tidwell and Rob Kowalski to Muslim polygamist circles, this whole trend concerns me. Some of their arguments are that polygamy is really God’s design for marriage. I started paying closer attention to this when a friend sent me an Instagram profile of a man who claims to be a Christian and has two wives. From there, I discovered numerous others making the same claims.
To unpack this, I invited my friend Michael Jones onto my channel. He’s addressed polygamy several times on his own platform, and together we break down the top biblical arguments polygamists use, expose the logical flaws, and look at the devastating psychological impact it has on women, children, and families. If you’ve ever wondered why God regulated but never celebrated polygamy, this conversation will hopefully give you some answers.
● Check out Michael's YouTube channel: https://youtube.com/@InspiringPhilosophy?si=JNzUYxk8H5WYhy5C
● Michael's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/inspiringphilosophy_?igsh=MWluYWt2Y2N6ODh6OQ==
Timestamps:
01:50 – Polygamy is in the Bible. What is it?
05:22 – Some popular polygamists are claiming that Christians have been lied to about polygamy in the Bible. Is this true? And looking at a surprising verse that seems to outlaw polygamy.
12:44 – If polygamy is such a big sin, why does it seem to be practiced and endorsed in the Old Testament?
14:19 – Some pushback: God never strictly forbade polygamy.
17:23 – Why polygamy is so harmful according to studies.
22:51 – “First Wife Syndrome”
26:23 – The psychological stress among polygamist wives.
29:25 – An observation from watching TLC’s “Sister Wives”
31:11 – What do the studies show about the men’s struggles?
33:20 – Comparing polygamists like Joseph Smith, who stated “religious reasons” to practice polygamy, to modern polygamists, and giving pushback on the argument that men don’t actually love their wives.
37:23 – Giving some arguments from the perspective of polygamists on why they think polygamy is biblical, and how Martin Luther is used as a resource to support polygamy.
43:25 – Some important commentary on this Martin Luther resource
44:57 – Revisiting the hypothetical question of the consequences of polygamy being outlawed in the Old Testament.
47:57 – Why does polygamy seem to be prevalent throughout the Old Testament, but almost nonexistent in the New Testament?
50:12 – Playing a video from a prominent polygamist and getting Michael's thoughts on it.
59:55 – Why arguments for polygamy sound like spiritual abuse.
1:02:08 – The societal and civil consequences for polygamy.
1:10:24 – The poor KIDS.
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●Article on plural marriage: https://richtidwell.com/on-plural-marriage/
●Mike Winger’s video on polygamy: https://youtu.be/sIlyDjxYtKQ?si=dN4zHTKtqzFioTMu
●Michael's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@UC5qDet6sa6rODi7t6wfpg8g
● Our Video on Polygamy: https://www.youtube.com/live/JWTcQi9dKa8?si=I66gN88TgHp8YFZz
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