Why Did God Hate Esau? Romans 9:13 and Sovereignty Explained
Les Feldick Bible Study
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June 18, 2026
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📖 Why did God say "Jacob I loved, but Esau I hated"? Romans 9:13 is one of the most misunderstood verses in the Bible — and the answer reveals everything about God's sovereignty, mercy, and grace.
✝️ Continuing verse-by-verse through Romans 9, this study picks up at verse 12 and moves through verse 17, covering three of the most challenging passages in all of Paul's writings. We begin with Romans 9:13 and the famous Spurgeon quote — "My problem is not how God could hate Esau, but how He could love Jacob." From there we go to Malachi 1:1-4, where God's judgment on the Edomites (Esau's descendants) is explained in its historical context. Then Romans 9:14-15 confronts the hard question: Is God unrighteous? Paul answers with Moses at Sinai — after the golden calf, God had every right to destroy Israel, but instead withdrew into His sovereignty and poured out mercy. We cross-reference John 1:13 — born not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, but of God — and then John 8:36-44, where Jesus confronts the Pharisees who trusted in their Abrahamic genealogy but were spiritually blind. The lesson closes at Romans 9:17 with Pharaoh — raised up by God so His power and name would be declared throughout all the earth.
📜 Key Topics Covered:
Romans 9:13 — "Jacob I loved, but Esau I hated" explained
Malachi 1:1-4 — God's judgment on Edom, Esau's descendants
Romans 9:14-15 — Is God unrighteous? God forbid
The golden calf — why God spared Israel by sovereign mercy
John 1:13 — born not of blood nor will of man, but of God
John 8:36-44 — Jesus confronts Pharisees trusting in genealogy
Romans 9:16 — not of him that willeth nor runneth, but of God
Romans 9:17 — Pharaoh raised up to declare God's name on earth
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00:00 — Welcome & Introduction to Romans 9
00:28 — Romans 9:12 Recap — The Elder Shall Serve the Younger
01:09 — Romans 9:13 — "Jacob I Loved, but Esau I Hated" Introduced
02:42 — What Does "Hated" Really Mean? A Comparative Term Explained
03:44 — The Spurgeon Quote — How Could God Love Jacob?
04:25 — Why Did God Love You? Personal Reflection on Grace
05:05 — Malachi 1:1-2 — "I Have Loved You, Saith the Lord"
05:55 — Malachi 1:3-4 — God's Judgment on Edom, Esau's Descendants
06:37 — The Edomites — Mountain Dwellers, Pride, and God's Destruction
07:46 — Back to Romans 9:13 — Paul Quotes Malachi on Jacob and Esau
08:01 — Romans 9:14 — Is There Unrighteousness with God? God Forbid
09:47 — Romans 9:15 — God Tells Moses: I Will Have Mercy on Whom I Will
10:14 — The Golden Calf — Israel's Sin and God's Right to Destroy Them
12:02 — Moses Pleads for Israel — 30 Days on His Face Before God
13:07 — God Spares Israel by Sovereign Mercy — John Darby's Insight
13:46 — God's Mercy at the Cross of Calvary — Poured Out for All
15:39 — The Sinner's Prayer — Is It Appropriate Today?
16:24 — God Already Poured Out Mercy — We Appropriate It by Faith
17:17 — Romans 9:16 — Not of Him That Willeth nor Runneth, but of God
17:31 — John 1:13 — Born Not of Blood nor Will of Man, but of God
18:37 — John 8 — The Pharisees' Pride in Abrahamic Genealogy
19:55 — John 8:36-38 — Jesus Confronts the Pharisees' Spiritual Blindness
21:07 — John 8:41 — "We Be Not Born of Fornication" — Attacking the Virgin Birth
22:42 — John 8:42-44 — "You Are of Your Father the Devil"
24:08 — John 8:47 — He That Is of God Heareth God's Words
25:07 — Back to Romans 9:16 — Genealogy Cannot Make You a Child of God
26:09 — Romans 9:17 — Pharaoh Raised Up to Declare God's Name on Earth
27:03 — The Plagues of Egypt — God's Power Known Across the Ancient World
27:30 — Closing
Scripture
RomansRomans 9Romans 9:13MalachiMalachi 1Malachi 1:1Malachi 1:1-4Romans 9:14Romans 9:14-15JohnJohn 1:13John 8:36John 8:36-44Romans 9:17Romans 9:16John 8:44Romans 9:12Malachi 1:1-2Malachi 1:3Malachi 1:3-4Romans 9:15John 8:36-38John 8:41John 8:42John 8:42-44John 8:47
Topics
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