Gentle Parenting, The Instagram Lie, and the Real War for Your Home
Melissa Dougherty
apologetics
October 24, 2025
Rachel Zwayne is probably one of the kindest women I've ever met, and I'm so glad to introduce her to you. No matter how old your kids are, modern motherhood can feel like a constant tug of war between emotions and truth, grace and discipline, calling and comparison. We get real about what it actually looks like to raise kids and follow Jesus in a culture obsessed with feelings and perfection. We talk about gentle parenting, and what seems to be the Instagram-perfect mom life, to finding peace in your God-given calling as a woman and mother. She talks a great deal about emotions and how beautiful they are, but also about where we can have some downfalls.
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Timestamps:
03:13- Who is Rachel Zwayne, and what is her ministry about?
11:38- What does it mean to find your “calling” as a woman and mother?
20:53- Many of us see Instagram moms, and they seem perfect. How can we fight the comparison trap?
31:36- Emotions can be a big area of struggle. But they can also be very beautiful. What are some of the most common ways you see women wrestle with their emotions? What encouragement would you give to the woman who feels like her emotions keep derailing her spiritual growth?
56:52- Let’s talk about Gentle Parenting.
1:12:18- Rachel's children are all grown up. What is her relationship like with her kids today?
1:20:31- What are some good parenting book resources out there?
Resources Related to this Video:
My Video with Emeal Zwayne: https://youtu.be/7svidaTNr5M
My video about emotions: https://youtu.be/fxxOPSUAteE
My video about some of the best parenting advice I’ve ever gotten: https://youtu.be/YLYpR4SgDKU
Rachel’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joyful_mothers/
What about all this “gentle and quiet spirit” and “submitting” stuff?: https://youtu.be/H8PFVZgIQ2w?si=BayM_ppV2lldTugQ
Does Gentle Parenting hurt kids?: https://youtu.be/8s0PO57rs00?si=PWxK4dlIIvI1sc7d
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