We Have a Masculinity Problem in the Church
sisterfaithh
teaching
July 30, 2026
Much of the conversation about masculinity in the church has been reduced to whether men pursue women, make enough money, or seem ambitious enough. But those are cultural standards, not biblical ones. This video looks at how weak, seeker-sensitive churches can contribute to the softening of men, why worldly success is a poor measure of manhood, and why Christ must remain the standard. The church does not need men who are simply more impressive to women; it needs men who are being formed by Scripture into courage, discipline, responsibility, and obedience to Christ.
00:00 Intro
0:24 98% of men are feminine
1:55 “Men aren’t pursuing women”
2:44 Biblical masculinity
3:33 Your church has a masculinity problem
4:56 The effects of the seeker-sensitive church
6:49 Personal anecdote
8:36 Who are you attracting?
9:52 Hi Bella
10:02 Unequally yoked
10:52 The measure of a man
12:19 How a man grows in godliness
12:42 The worldly standard
13:30 A perfect example
14:32 The biblical standard
15:19 Ciao Bella!
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