🔴 Yokes That Are Not of God | Toxic Discernment | Over-Mothered Under-Fathered | Why Bother Praying?
Mark DeJesus
teaching
September 6, 2026
In today’s Sunday Live, I was joined by my son, Maximus, as my co-host! We had a powerful, fun and vulnerable time together, while addressing questions you sent in. Max shared a number of updates, about his dreams of growing in his artwork, starting his own YouTube channel and the areas of his life where has grown and overcome. He also opened up about what it feels like inside his mind while having autism and what his experience of adulting has been like so far.
I took questions from the live chat about suffering with Christ while battling OCD, anxiety and panic. I shared how Jesus’ “easy yoke” doesn’t mean an easy life, but a different way of relating to pressure and burdens. I also explored some confusion about between being “children of God” and the “bride of Christ” and how both metaphors shape our identity, security and anticipation of Christ’s return.
I spent time addressing deep questions around prayer and disappointment—what to do when your house doesn’t sell, the diagnosis is bad, the money isn’t there. One person was wondering, "Why bother praying?" I dug into confusion around the so-called “gift of discernment” online, where everything is labeled demonic. I pushed back against fear-based, superstitious and obsessive deliverance approaches that fuel OCD rather than free people, pointing instead to grounded, biblical spiritual warfare.
Along the way I talked about over-mothering, while also having emotionally absent fathers and how those dynamics can feed numerous emotional and mental health struggles. I talked to a man's question about trying to become more assertive.
Max also shared about his growth in social skills, adulting, riding a bike, learning to drive a golf cart and how creativity—through watercolor, pen and ink, charcoal, and digital art—helps him process life, faith, and struggle. In all things, we pray you are encouraged in your own journey of healing and freedom!
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0:00 Show Begins
2:00 Maximus Welcomes the Audience
2:48 Max Introduces his father and the Chat Begins
2:54 Introduction Questions
7:20 Accomplishments with food
12:58 What’s something about Max wished people understood
14:38 SuperChat Introduction
17:41 Max’s Church Lady Voice
20:38 Confusion about Persecution But also Jesus burden being light
23:35 Confused about being Children of God & Brides of Christ
29:50 Struggling with Pray and Ask God for Things
38:20 Confusion About “Discernment” Communicated Online
46:06 Max’s Praise Video Reaction
48:24 Mac Addresses Chat Questions
49:50 Max’s Accomplishment with Bike Riding and Working on Driving
52:31 More Chat Questions for Max
54:40 Max Displays His Art Work
1:01:33 I Lack Assertiveness as a Man
1:06:48 Man Who Grew Up “Over-Mothered”
1:15:40 Max Working on His Social Skills
1:19:24 Chat Questions
1:20:56 Bingewatching Marks Videos But Being Too Lazy to Journal
1:23:30 Advice for Entering Vocational Ministry
1:26:23 Mark and Max Wrap Up
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