1 Corinthians 7:12-40 | Pastor John Miller

What should a Christian do if they are married to an unbeliever? Is it better to be single or married in a world filled with "present distress"? In this deep dive into the second half of 1 Corinthians 7, Pastor John Miller explores the complexities of relationships, divorce, and the high calling of singleness. Moving beyond religious tradition, Pastor John explains how God uses our marriages—even those with unsaved spouses—as a "sanctifying influence." He also champions the biblical gift of singleness, not as a second-class status, but as a unique opportunity for undistracted devotion to the Lord. Whether you are seeking a spouse, navigating a difficult marriage, or flourishing in singleness, this message provides essential tools to "bloom where you are planted" while keeping your eyes on the eternal. In this study, you will discover: - The Sanctifying Influence: Why your presence as a believer creates a "holy" environment for your unsaved spouse and children. - The "Peace" Clause: Understanding when a believer is "not under bondage" in cases of abandonment by an unbeliever. - The Gift of Singleness: Why Paul encourages the single life as a means to attend upon the Lord without the "trouble in the flesh" that comes with domestic responsibilities. - Domestic Priorities: How to be married "as though you had no wife"—learning to prioritize the Kingdom of God over worldly preoccupations. - The "Only in the Lord" Rule: The critical importance of marrying not just a "Christian," but a committed, born-again follower of Jesus. - Practical Dating Advice: Why you should sit back and observe before you jump in, and why you should focus on being the right person rather than just finding the right person. 📺 WATCH THE FULL SERIES: Catch up on the entire verse-by-verse study through 1 Corinthians here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLP9sIJpVEMLL4MAr7gu8Z1UrWTrRRcU9x 🕒 Video Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction: The Problem of Mixed Marriages 03:21 - "To the Rest Speak I": Divine Inspiration vs. Direct Command 05:33 - The Sanctifying Influence: Your Life as a Living Witness 08:00 - 1 Peter 3: Winning an Unsaved Spouse without Words 10:13 - Marriage and Children: The Effect of a Godly Parent 11:32 - When an Unbeliever Departs: Let Them Depart 13:11 - Biblical Basis for Divorce: Infidelity and Abandonment 16:13 - The Gift of Singleness: Valorizing the Unmarried Life 17:45 - Bloom Where You are Planted: Assignment and Calling 21:44 - The Present Distress: Why Paul Leaned Toward Singleness in Corinth 23:30 - Marriage is Not Sin, But Includes "Trouble in the Flesh" 28:28 - Radical Living: Time is Short, and the World is Passing 32:45 - Managing Priorities: Seeking First the Kingdom of God 37:05 - Preoccupations of Marriage: The "Mashed Potatoes" Principle 38:48 - John R.W. Stott and the Single Life 41:16 - Parental Advice on Arranged Marriage 42:19 - The Golden Rule of Remarriage: "Only in the Lord" 44:27 - 5 Practical Tips for Single Christians 46:30 - Conclusion and Closing Prayer ⛪️ Connect with Revival Christian Fellowship We are a church located in Menifee, CA, dedicated to the expository, verse-by-verse teaching of God's Word. Our mission is to see lives transformed by the power of the Gospel and the truth of the Scriptures. Visit our Website: https://www.revival.tv Watch More Sermons: https://www.revival.tv/sermons 🤝 Partner With Us If this ministry has been a blessing to your spiritual growth, consider partnering with us to help take the Word of God to the nations. Give Online: https://www.revival.tv/give 📱 Stay Updated Subscribe to stay connected with Pastor John Miller’s latest teachings and church updates. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/revivaltv Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/revival_tv #1Corinthians7 #Singleness #ChristianMarriage #PastorJohnMiller #RevivalChristianFellowship #BibleStudy #DatingAdvice #DivorceAndRemarriage #SpiritualGifts #expositorypreaching