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How to Know Who to Marry

Alex Wilson

Alex Wilson

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July 16, 2026
How do you know who to marry? In this video we look at Christian relationship red flags through David and Michal's marriage, one of the saddest marriages in the Bible, and the one question that matters more than anything superficial: will this person pursue the Lord with you? Michal loved David. The text never says he loved her. There was an idol in the bedroom. And years later, she watched him worship and despised him in her heart. Every red flag was there from the beginning. If you're single and trying to figure out if they're the one, this is for you. If you're second guessing their character, the answer is no. If you're second guessing superficial stuff, that all changes anyway. And if you're already married, your spouse IS the one. Before the covenant, be careful. After the covenant, be faithful. Scriptures covered: 1 Samuel 18:17-29, 1 Samuel 19:11-17, 2 Samuel 6:16-23, Matthew 19:6, Romans 5:8, Ephesians 5:25-27 CHAPTERS 0:00 If You're Second Guessing, the Answer Is No 0:30 This Is Not Permission to Leave Your Marriage 1:35 The Marriage That Looked Right on Paper 2:50 Red Flag 1: He Never Loved Her Back 3:30 Red Flag 2: The Idol in the Bedroom 4:00 Red Flag 3: When It Cost Her, She Turned on Him 4:30 She Despised His Worship 6:10 How to Know Who to Marry 7:35 The True Bridegroom 9:10 Before the Covenant, Be Careful HOUSE CHURCH: https://housechurchkauai.com AMEN PODCAST: https://amenpodcast.com/ #HouseChurch #AlexWilson #AmenPodcast

Scripture

1 Samuel1 Samuel 181 Samuel 18:171 Samuel 18:17-291 Samuel 191 Samuel 19:111 Samuel 19:11-172 Samuel2 Samuel 62 Samuel 6:162 Samuel 6:16-23MatthewMatthew 19Matthew 19:6RomansRomans 5Romans 5:8EphesiansEphesians 5Ephesians 5:25Ephesians 5:25-27

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