Why God Called Me To Abstinence: A Dialogue on Abstaining Before Marriage

In this powerful episode, host Marlyn and guest Bianca Williams dive deep into the spiritual and emotional consequences of sexual immorality and the unseen battles that can come with opening certain doors spiritually. Through raw personal testimony and biblical insight, we unpack how compromising behaviors can impact your mind, emotions, peace, and relationship with God. From spiritual warfare to the importance of guarding your heart, this conversation is a wake-up call for anyone seeking freedom, healing, and discernment in today’s culture. If you’ve ever struggled with temptation, spiritual heaviness, or wondered why certain doors in your life feel difficult to close, this episode will challenge and encourage you. We also discuss biblical warnings about spiritual gateways, the importance of obedience to God’s convictions, and how listening to spiritual warnings can protect your life. Key Takeaways: * Spiritual warfare and sexual immorality * Personal testimony of spiritual attack * Biblical warnings about gateways to evil * How sexual sin affects emotional and spiritual health * Why guarding your heart and mind matters Chapters: 00:00 The Consequences of Opening Doors 00:47 Meeting Bianca Williams + Her Faith Journey 01:28 Launching a Bible Study & Answering God’s Call 03:12 Abstinence vs. Celibacy Explained 04:47 Why Bianca Chose Abstinence 07:28 The Hardest Part About Falling Into Temptation 09:57 Surrendering Lust & Partnering With the Holy Spirit 12:07 What “Cutting It Off” Actually Looks Like 14:51 Shame, Conviction & Getting Back Up Again 16:04 Why Accountability Partners Matter 20:04 Generational Curses, Lust & Family Patterns 23:45 Becoming the Curse Breaker in Your Family 27:24 How Abstinence Changed Bianca’s Relationship With God 30:05 Understanding God as Father 31:24 Self-Worth, Identity & Knowing God’s Love 34:37 Hiding God’s Word in Your Heart 36:36 Running Back to Old Vices & Comforts 39:31 How God Speaks Through Conviction & Dreams 46:36 The Spiritual Consequences of Sexual Immorality 47:50 “If You Let This Person In, They’re Bringing Their Demons Too” 50:34 Why the Enemy Waits for an Opportune Time 53:06 Prayer, Fasting & Breaking Spiritual Strongholds 54:35 Dating While Abstinent & Setting Boundaries 55:50 Planting Seeds Through Your Lifestyle 57:37 Advice for Anyone Starting Their Abstinence Journey Host IG: @therealmsmarlyn Podcast IG & Tiktok: @therawfaithpodcast Guest IG: @bee.loved_ — 🎙️ The Raw Faith Podcast is a guest-based Christian podcast where real people share their testimonies, faith journeys, and honest conversations about walking with Jesus in today’s world. #SpiritualWarfare #SexualImmorality #ChristianPodcast #FaithBasedPodcast #BiblicalTruth #GuardYourHeart #SpiritualHealth #ChristianYouTube #Deliverance #ChristianFaith #HealingJourney #Testimony #JesusChrist #BiblicalWisdom #KingdomMindset #ChristianContent #DemonicOppression #SpiritualAttack #MentalHealthAndFaith #GodlyLiving